Hey there,
being able to make big laydowns and feeling great, even if you lose money or some chips. You know, its not just a fold, its a game changer, when youre able for that at the right time. There are times, when you have to fold your big hands, even pre flop and you have to go through different Tournaments and also up and downs to understand that point.
But i guess and thats for everyone: If you take it serious, you will get to that point.
Good Luck,
Natox