In game you don't calculate, you just know you will flop a set 1 time in 8 (12% chance).
You usually want better implied odds than 8:1 on someone's stack if you are calling small pairs to set mine - this allows for the times you get coolered set over set or villain just doesn't pay you off with his whole stack. i.e. don't set mine with relatively short stacks.
If you really want to calculate from scratch you can do it like this:
Calculate how often your pair will miss each card on the flop..
48 cards out of the remaining 50 (we remove the 2 cards in your hand from the 52 in the deck) miss your pair for the 1st flop card
47 cards out of the remaining 49 miss your pair for the 2nd flop card
46 cards out of the remaining 48 miss your pair for the 3rd flop card
We then multiply these probabilities together to see how often your pair misses all 3 flop cards:
48/50 x 47/49 x 46/48 = 0.88..
We want the opposite of this i.e. how often we don't miss all 3, so we take the compliment:
1-0.88 = 0.12 = 12% = 1 time 8