There are people who provoke live. Can you complain? What is acceptable table etiquette?
Maaan, provocative players are a real test of your psychological and emotional side, eh? They're usually weaker players who can't rely on their skills, so they try to use these low-level tactics to break your concentration. In online games, you see these... well, let's just avoid the adjectives and keep it respectful for the forum mods and other users... let's just say these folks do everything they can for attention. They trash talk, insult, try to start conversations, show their
hands after they fold—you name it.
In
online poker rooms, the main weapon is the chat box. And I think unless you're on some High Stakes TV show, chatting at a poker table can be a genuinely dangerous habit: you lose focus, and your opponents can pick up information that they'll use against you later. The list of reasons goes on.
The ideal is to be focused only on yourself—and that's not selfish, it's concentration. You should sit down at the table already knowing that so-and-so is gonna be talking and trying to get under your skin. And your reaction should be the same as always, your face should be the same as always. You just switch into analytical mode and, as
cliché as it might sound, put on the "poker face": no expressions, no emotions, no reactions. Because that's exactly what that weak, provocative player wants—to get a rise out of you so you lose control of your game and start making mistakes you wouldn't normally make.
Calm, focus, attention, self-control—these are all principles of a healthy poker mindset. They're the tools we need to have; we need to show up to the table armed and ready to be ice-cold. The less you talk at the table, the less attention you give them, and the more you focus on your own game—breathing deep, staying calm, ignoring the insults whether they're gestures, words, or whatever—the better your performance will be. When you don't react to the provocation, that's when your opponents actually start to get scared of you.
Just look your opponents right in the eye, no anger or resentment, just with a passive, frosty calm. Make your movements slow, don't throw your chips in on impulse. Always remember why you decided to sit down at a poker table in the first place: you're there to take chips from other players. The table isn't a happy hour with your friends and enemies; you're not there to socialize. Your goal is to be ruthless when it comes to your winrate and profit. And that ruthlessness comes from a peace of mind—the ability to stay calm in the storm, to not flinch, not react, and just do what you've trained to do well: play poker.