I believe that's more in your head than anything, sure you lose a flip vs a pocket pair, you just have a tendency to forget the times you suckout and hit one of your outs vs a low pair.
Not sure what to make of your comment
"at my level every donk thinks pocket pairs are simply the nuts, and most of them will go all in every time. and its becoming frustrated because every time a donk goes all in and i have AK or AQ, im FORCED to gamble."
Firstly, you call these people donks for shoving their pair. They actually have a +EV shove here and equity to make money long term doing this. You have to remember, they actually a favourite, be it slight favourite 55%/45% or shorter 52%/47% if you hold A,K/A,Qs. This is also HEADSUPs, a pair is a monster Preflop and he's likely slightly ahead 299 out of 300 times even if only slightly ahead, all +ev.
I think the odds of both picking a pair PF is 300/1 so do the the maths.
Now you also have to remember, standard play, he raises, or you raises, one of you 3bets, the other 4betshoves. If he 4bet shoves and has you on a wideish range already, then he has even MORE equity than the actually equity of midpair/two overs and on top of that has the fold equity so no, I don't think shoving a medium pair is bad play, especially if like you say, he has a 2/1 chip disadvantage to you, this is the ONLY play to be doing with a medium pair assuming blinds have reached a decent level. Flatting with a medium pair short stack,mid stage of a HU SNG is generally bad play, most of the time an over cards hits.
You are never forced to gamble as you put it, it's not just a case of "ok gotta gamble here" you have to know what his range is for one and two realise people's ranges will widen when they are getting shorter (like in this case) you calling is not bad play and like him, based on everything it's both +EV long-term.
Stop trying to look at the smaller picture of saying about saying how you always lose a flip (clearly not, you said at the end you beat a guy 10times in a row
really?
) Anyway, point is, it's fine to call the shove a high percentage of the time with A,Q/A,Q as it has a long term +EV which is all that matters.
On another note, someone shoving all in every hand is a dream come true in my eyes, fold,fold,fold, sure he's picking up 10/20 in chips, just wait till you have a winning hand ev wise to his range to make a profitable call, even if you get sucked out of he hits some sick straight/flush you at least know it's a +EV call.
