A little harsh, but you're fine. Not that thin-skinned.

Truth is, I don't walk away from the table waiting to hear my hand pop up for attention. I am right there, and really takes just an extra second if that - far less time than each person takes almost every hand when their turn comes every time, pretending they have a hand. lol Guess I could use the sit out next hand. There is no 'sit out next BB' button, at least not in the games I play at FT. BTW, I
always, always hit the 'sit out next hand' before stepping away for a few minutes.
As far as the antes, I've never seen this as a choice. I couldn't play in a game where potentially 7 people were posting antes. They don't do this at FT either, at least not in the cash Razz games I've played.