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[QUOTE="KenFischer, post: 774449, member: 32646"]
You need to be able to find a balance where you both can do what you like to do (the other person [B]really [/B]accepts it) or it's not going to work.  I'm very lucky, because Rachel plays poker also.  I play a lot more than she does, and I try to make sure that I plan my playing time around things that are important to her.  I think that goes a long way toward making it work.

You have to be able to come to an agreement with her that you both can live with.  If you can't do that, then it's time for either her or the poker to go away - it won't get better over time, no matter how much you avoid addressing the issue.

Another point to consider is that if the two of you can't come to a compromise over this, you should both be thankful that you found out early in the relationship.  In the grand scheme of things, this isn't that big of a deal to work out, but it's good practice for the real problems that will come up in life.

Good luck.
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