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[QUOTE="Snowmobiler, post: 1217555, member: 52309"]
Time for the speech!
 
If this is causing problems while you are BF/GF then watch out if you let this get anymore serious.
 
When I meet someone new,I make sure they completely understand that when it comes to my life,I make the decisions.I also do not get involved in my partners decisions unless asked.Live and Let live.If she cant get pass this then it will be all up hill from here!Its not weather poker is evil or dirty,Its about being your own man and making your own decisions without being judged.
 
When I 1st told my wife that I wanted to work at getting good at poker ,she wished me luck and let me do my thing! If you want a good relationship then this is a necessity IMO.
 
If your GF still has a problem with it,time to move on and find someone new that will let you live your life, without all the crap that comes with someone that wants to control your life.
 
Honestly if she is this judgemental over a simple card game,imagine how bad it likely will be when the issues involve kids,jobs,family, ect. 
 
Choose your mate wisely,You will be far better off in the longrun if you pick someone that supports you in desires/goals. One thing I have learned,if your mate is controling and judgemental then it gets worse the longer you are together.Dont make the mistake to think she will change,That type of personality is always looking to change you.
 
Good luck with things,and Gl with your decision. 
 
 
 
 
Snow      :cool:
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