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[QUOTE="Stu_Ungar, post: 1217598, member: 39779"]
Personally I have to agree with Snow.

Its not really a poker issue.  Its a control issue.

His GR wants him to quit something he enjoys because she does not agree with it.

In long term relationships there will be many disagreements.  So for a successful happy relationship, both sides have to be able to reach compromises and also to respect each other's space.

Now if he were spending every free minute playing, then a comprimise would be needed.  The compromise being to play less so that they could do things together.

If he were losing every spare dollar he had, then again a comprimise would need to be reached.  He can play poker but has to stick to a monthly budget.

Both of these seem reasonable compromises.

To say that he cannot play at all because his GF dosent like it is neither a comprimise nor respecting his personal space.

If they cant come to an agreement on something like this, how will they be able to rech agreements on more serious issues?
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