Insomnia6590 said:
The children grew up and left the house
I do not drink alcohol, and now I am old to wander around the city
I spend my free time to playing poker
But how can I explain to my wife .....; ((
You seem to be implying that your wife doesn't support your pastime. I feel for you.
I'm at a similar point in my life - kids are grown and gone from the house, and I don't wander around the city either. My wife is completely supportive as long as I don't do anything stupid, like losing a lot of money doing it.
So, we're both happy. Why? I guess we just both accept each other for who we are. She has her hobbies and I have mine. I don't lose money playing poker, although I don't really win much either. We'd both be ecstatic if I won lots, but that's not the goal.