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[QUOTE="Debi, post: 805361, member: 13937"]
Wow - that is very interesting. I really think you should talk to her - but be careful how you approach it.
 
There was a time when I played too much and did not spend enough time with my husband in the evenings. We had a few mild arguments over it - we don't argue aften about anything, but there was always the underlying feelings. I felt guilty and he felt neglected. When he mentioned it to me I felt like my independence was being threatened. (I had a lot of good friends online that I played with - and the evenings were the time that was best to get together. I was afraid of losing those friendships if I didn't nurture them.)
 
Over time we have found a much better balance. Cardschat has helped because now I only play CC games - so I can work everything else around those. I don't play as late in the evenings. Sometimes we both play at night but will take our laptops in the family room and watch TV and play there. Most nights though we just watch TV together and do other things on the weekends.
 
Somehow she needs to find that balance with you. But again be careful how you approach it - our feathers get ruffled when we feel threatened lol.
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