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anyone else feel they fold the winning hand alot more then actually winning the hand. Im talking about preflop like having 8 2 diamonds and folding then flopping a flush

Yes. However, I also feel I fold the losing hand alot alot alot more than actually losing the hand. Which tells me that I'm playing nice and tight poker, which is good at my stakes.

I agree fully, with one add on.
I don't feel i hit with cards i folded straight up.
It always happens to me when i call a small raise, or raise myself, and then someone else will double or triple it, and i feel my Q-3 is a waste at that amount of money. And then i flop a set. Always when i put in some money, and then decided the extra amount was too much.
That tells me i'm a bad player, for playing those hands in the first place