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[QUOTE="GeckoAA, post: 5721501, member: 369159"]
Its never fair when a person has to hide what they like or who they are. Thats not very healthy in a relationship.

If I were him I would ask her to sit down and have a respectful conversation.  Talk about why he likes poker so much. Ask her why she hates it so much. etc etc

If he plays online, ask if she would like to watch  a bit, or maybe if she shows  enough interest, let her try it out.

Is there anything that she does that he does not like or does not support?  Perhaps they could talk about this too.  Maybe they could start supporting each other's passions and hobbies instead of hiding or controlling each other.

I think this would strengthen a relationship more so than what currently occurring.

Even if he never wins, as long as he is contributing fairly to living expenses.  It would be different situation if she was the only one working and paying bills.

Everyone needs to be able to have hobbies etc even if it costs; as not every hobby people choose to do makes money.  Sometimes maybe you go to dance classes or Zumba for example; this costs money but you get a payment of health, not more money.
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