Yes I think your right; girls don’t get the respect AT FIRST. We have to prove ourselves first then we gain the respect. Online I never let it known that I am female, only if it is at the end of a game and I’m doing really well, I will drop it in. Just to hurt their egos.
I was playing in a live game lately with guys that I Knew but had never played poker with before. They did not give me any respect as a poker player, reraising my raises with nothing, trying to scare me off. Didn’t work!! But by the end of the night I certainly had gained their respect and dented their ego's. So just play game, and if you deserve it, you will gain respect.
But hey, why would anyone be surprised at this, haven’t women always been striving to gain respect and equality in all aspects of life. What’s different about poker!!!
And to Rob, maybe the reason that there is not many female pro poker players, is because it was predominately a male game. Women were not altogether accepted in the poker circuit, who was minding the kids for god’s sake!! I could go on. But things are changing; give it another few years and who knows........