I'm still learning, but there's a lot of videos on youtube regarding the game of poker you could point your friends to. You're right that it's not
just a game of luck, but chance or variance is a part of it.
From what I understand, the professionals have found a way to work with this variance so they're profitable over a long enough timeline. That timeline might vary from player to player but, again from what I understand, it's from playing millions of
hands; countless hours...
In my limited experience, once you're able to quantify things (which many players have -- before us), the scope and impact of chance/variance starts to diminish. Not to mention, you
can simply out-play an opponent and beat them.
In short, you're right. They're wrong. So keep playing and have fun!
