ScottishMatt said:
Create some conviction in yourself, man!
You have to believe that you are better than the players you are playing against. And when you do, well then you will be better than them.
Quick tip - after running through ranges etc. and analyzing whether to make the big call, or even right before any decision you make - as yourself if you are happy to lose in the current scenario. Ask yourself out loud if need be, but the important thing is that you believe you are making the correct decision. And if you truly do believe that then you can't be angry when you happen to lose, because you know it was right.
I fear what you might be doing right now is knowingly making a wrong play hoping that you yourself are wrong in thinking that it's the wrong play. Believe that you are right, ask yourself if you are comfortable making "x" decision no matter the outcome and then make it. Don't look back and regret it.
Keep ya head up!
Thanks for your response Matt. It was mostly a moment of weakness. I'm not consistently making plays I KNOW are super bad lol.
And it's difficult to analyze these moments - mostly because they're not "rational" in a traditional sense. More, it's just a surge of emotion, and it's partly "I call because **** YOU." Partly it's just holding onto that vague hope that I'm wrong. And partly a "How can I STILL run like this," sort of thing.
But obv it's poker, yes I can obv still run like this. It's just embarrassing when the bad play intersects with it, because I can no longer blame it on variance (even if I only get X runout once in every 100 times). And people are super hard on themselves relative to others I guess.
I also appreciate your advice for getting out of it. And I think it's less about being okay with whatever outcome, and more about not having the awareness in the first place. When I make spazz calls like that, it's from NOT having my brain connected to my hand, if that makes sense. I just make the call.
But that's why I should be trying to maintain a pre-session warmup and mental game timers and stuff.
😱
BenjiHustle said:
Perhaps become a weekend reg?
I'm gonna be busy but I doubt I'll ever be satisfied being a weekend reg. But I compromise too. So far I've been relatively good about not playing when I've had a particularly rough day. So for now just gonna keep on doing what I've been doing, but try to step up my analysis on whether I should be playing I guess.
And stop being lazy when it comes to pre-session.