Tempting offer!

najisami said:

You are sitting at a Blackjack table or at your favorite Slot machine next to a beautiful lady.
After a little while, you found yourself in a pleasant conversation with her.
When she got up to leave, she tells you that she has a room and you can come upstairs to finish the discussion if you wanted.

Would you? Or the suspicion settles in, and you chicken out?

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I would use the voucher for gaming machines.
It would go something like this:
I sat down to play my favourite slot machine, and a beautiful woman sat down next to me. After a while, we started a pleasant conversation. When she got up to leave, she told me that she had a room and I could go upstairs to continue our conversation... and I, in turn, offered to introduce her to my mum, who was waiting for me in the car in the car park.

R.Melnyk77 said:

First, I would suggest that she meet my mother, who is waiting for me in the car in the car park.

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But why? Are you planning to marry her already? .

R.Melnyk77 said:

I would use the voucher for gaming machines.
It would go something like this:
I sat down to play my favourite slot machine, and a beautiful woman sat down next to me. After a while, we started a pleasant conversation. When she got up to leave, she told me that she had a room and I could go upstairs to continue our conversation... and I, in turn, offered to introduce her to my mum, who was waiting for me in the car in the car park.

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Combining 2 threads! Cool.
What doesn't seem cool to me is leaving your mom in the car while you were gambling. How long was she in the parking lot?

It depends on where I am. If it's a reputable hotel or casino that I feel safe in, I'll follow that girl right away. If it's not a safe place, I'll meet her somewhere else or at another time.

Reddog888 said:

It depends on where I am. If it's a reputable hotel or casino that I feel safe in, I'll follow that girl right away. If it's not a safe place, I'll meet her somewhere else or at another time.

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You think you would be sitting and gambling in a place that's not safe?
Anyway, I'm talking about a big, safe casino.

The point here is that time flows differently depending on our feelings and circumstances. Pleasant moments fly by, while unpleasant ones seem endless.There must be meaning in all actions.I don't fall for these kinds of offers.When you're next to a beautiful girl, your brain starts working in different directions at once, and you can't think of anything at all.When you grow up and gain experience in communication, then even if she's sitting naked next to you, you'll be able to talk to her calmly. Self-control is a useful thing.

dreamer13 said:

When you grow up and gain experience in communication, then even if she's sitting naked next to you, you'll be able to talk to her calmly. Self-control is a useful thing.

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I agree on everything you said above. But you diplomatically avoided to answer the question.
So, would you calmly accept her offer or not?

I'd say, "You're wasting your time sweetie. I play for the other team."

Seriously though, years ago a guy I know told me that during his card counting days a similar thing happened to him one night. He'd been playing for an hour or so when an attractive young woman came to the table, sat next to him, and started to take an interest in him. Now he isn't movie star handsome, but he is a good looking man.

The hitch is that he never realized that he is attractive, so he thought of two reasons why a woman like this would be paying attention to him. One is that they thought he was counting and called her in to distract him from his game. The second is that she was a hooker or something and looking for his money. The third reason is that she may have actually been attracted to him, but of course he would never have considered that one. So aside from a word or two he pretty much ignored her and she soon left the table.

I told him that he was better looking than he thinks and that if that ever happened again, and she asked him up to her room, then he should do what I or most women would do if they accepted such an offer from a man. I told him to call me or another friend, tell us what room number he will be in at which casino, and if we don't hear from him within twenty minutes, or whatever time period you choose, we should call the police.

When you get to the room admire it and look at everything like you're impressed. Make sure to check the bathroom and closet if it has one because that is where someone may hide. If there is a balcony take a look at it and make a comment about the stars or the view. Floor length drapes should also be checked, as well as under the bed.

It would also be immediately suspicious that something was up for a woman to invite a strange man into her room. Unless of course she was up to something, and what that "something" might be should bring up your radar.

Though not really related to this situation, there is a general safety tip that many don't know about. If you quickly push your smart phones power button five times it will bring up a slider to call 911. In the "settings" you can also set it to call 911 automatically when you do the 5 rapid pushes.

najisami said:

You think you would be sitting and gambling in a place that's not safe?
Anyway, I'm talking about a big, safe casino.

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Ok so I will take it ))

Of course, all girls are angel souls, even in casinos, so you should accept the offer without any doubt.
We forget Hollywood movies)))

First I would ask you how much you are going to charge me

Mauricio Perrotta said:

First I would ask you how much you are going to charge me

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Or you could try Joe Buck's system from Midnight Cowboy, and ask her to pay you. It didn't work for him, but maybe you'll have better luck.

“Long story short, we hear a story too good to be true – it ain’t.” – Lt. Aldo Raine (Inglourious Basterds)

najisami said:

You are sitting at a Blackjack table or at your favorite Slot machine next to a beautiful lady.
After a little while, you found yourself in a pleasant conversation with her.
When she got up to leave, she tells you that she has a room and you can come upstairs to finish the discussion if you wanted.

Would you? Or the suspicion settles in, and you chicken out?

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And in the room, besides her, four handsome Somali pirates will be waiting for me.
No, thank you.

Las Vegas? There's a 99.999999% chance she'll set a price for the conversation to continue in the room.

Emily Trott said:

When you get to the room admire it and look at everything like you're impressed. Make sure to check the bathroom and closet if it has one because that is where someone may hide. If there is a balcony take a look at it and make a comment about the stars or the view. Floor length drapes should also be checked, as well as under the bed.

It would also be immediately suspicious that something was up for a woman to invite a strange man into her room. Unless of course she was up to something, and what that "something" might be should bring up your radar.

Though not really related to this situation, there is a general safety tip that many don't know about. If you quickly push your smart phones power button five times it will bring up a slider to call 911. In the "settings" you can also set it to call 911 automatically when you do the 5 rapid pushes.

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Thank you for the useful tips, Emily.
It wouldn't hurt to take a chance here and there as long as you also take some reasonable precautions.

najisami said:

Thank you for the useful tips, Emily.

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It was my pleasure.

In addition to firearms and shooting I also teach Refuse To Be A Victim, which is a non-firearms course that teaches people how to avoid being victimized.

najisami said:

It wouldn't hurt to take a chance here and there as long as you also take some reasonable precautions.

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Definitely doesn't hurt to take a chance now and then. I grew up during the 1960s, and turned 18 in '71, which were the pre-AIDS days of free love and one night stands. I took a lot of risks myself, but have become much more aware and cautious as I've aged.

Emily Trott said:

It was my pleasure.

In addition to firearms and shooting I also teach Refuse To Be A Victim, which is a non-firearms course that teaches people how to avoid being victimized.

Definitely doesn't hurt to take a chance now and then. I grew up during the 1960s, and turned 18 in '71, which were the pre-AIDS days of free love and one night stands. I took a lot of risks myself, but have become much more aware and cautious as I've aged.

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I took a look at that. It looks awesome. Unfortunately, I don't live in the US anymore, otherwise I would've attended one of those seminars.
As to those risks, I truly believe they contribute to the personal evolution if none of them ended up in a fatal consequence.

najisami said:

As to those risks, I truly believe they contribute to the personal evolution if none of them ended up in a fatal consequence.

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Definitely. ❤️

Alarm bells a'ringing. Its an MO of a notorious criminal group (Ativan Gang) in my country to befriend & gain trust of the victims before drugging & robbing them.

Members, often women, approach tourists and engage them in friendly conversation, eventually inviting them for a meal, a drink, to their hotel room, or a tour of local spots. Once trust is established, the gang members introduce a tranquilizer into the victim's food or drink. The drug commonly associated with their name is Ativan (lorazepam), a potent central nervous system depressant. Other drugs like Dormicum (midazolam) have also been used. After the victim loses consciousness, the gang steals their cash, mobile phones, gadgets, and other valuables.

If something is too good to be true it probably is not. An abundance of caution won't harm.

najisami said:

You are sitting at a Blackjack table or at your favorite Slot machine next to a beautiful lady.
After a little while, you found yourself in a pleasant conversation with her.
When she got up to leave, she tells you that she has a room and you can come upstairs to finish the discussion if you wanted.

Would you? Or the suspicion settles in, and you chicken out?

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Of course he accepts, I tell the bellboy if I don't come out in 4 hours to call the police

YLAN said:

Alarm bells a'ringing. Its an MO of a notorious criminal group (Ativan Gang) in my country to befriend & gain trust of the victims before drugging & robbing them.

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Scary stuff!! I always thought that Philippines was a safe country.

YLAN said:

Alarm bells a'ringing. Its an MO of a notorious criminal group (Ativan Gang) in my country to befriend & gain trust of the victims before drugging & robbing them.

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Scary stuff!! I always thought that Philippines was a safe country.

najisami said:

Scary stuff!! I always thought that Philippines was a safe country.

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No worries. My place is as safe as any other where criminals are prosecuted & jailed, authorities are supported to uphold the law. Unlike some places where criminals are released without bail & authorities prevented from doing their duties.

YLAN said:

Unlike some places where criminals are released without bail & authorities prevented from doing their duties.

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Unfortunately, it smells corruption.