It would be really nice if Fairy Stories came true, but in reality, they don't. Once you realise this, and that it very rarely happens, that someone can win a huge amount of money playing Poker, then you can start to accept smaller wins and victories.
I am certain someone from a poor background can finish being in a huge tournament on the final table and make a life changing money, I have seen it on You-tube Videos, but it is very, very rare. Poker is a strange and sometimes a vicious game, and if you risk everything on one MTT you will probably be disappointed and finish going out before the bubble.
This is why they hold Satellite games so that players with smaller Bankrolls can make their dreams come true, and it always makes great headlines, that a player won a major tournament from a small buy-in, The best advertisement in the World for the Poker community, and of course the
poker sites.
Once you can accept that Fairy Stories, don't come true that often, and in all reality you have to be happy with smaller wins, then you can approach the game with a different mind and enjoy the game more.
When the fun Stops, STOP!