Even after playing online for a while, I still feel a bit nervous before sitting down at a live poker table. The slower pace and being face to face with other players adds pressure. I sometimes worry about making obvious mistakes or misreading situations. Once the game starts, it usually settles down, but those first few hands can feel intense. Do you still get nervous before live sessions, and how do you deal with it?
20+ year player but I don't play much live at my local casino but do play in me and my buddies local home game with friends weekly. And yes even after 20+ years of playing a still get a bit nervous going to the local casino but like said only for the first orbit I usually settle in pretty quickly. I typically get a drink of scotch upon sitting down and have one every 1-2 hours and finish off the last hour with a coffee before driving home. Being 6'4 and 270lbs that little bit of scotch doesn't cause a problem with ones ability to drive and it help take and keep the nerves away.
Cheers!!!
Cheers!!!
you should never be nervous playing poker,tells me your playing at stakes you shouldnt be,my rule of thumb is if I can not afford to lose then I cannot afford to win, when I sit down I want to win but if I dont no big deal, that why bankroll management is a must, that is how I get around it. When I have got lucky and won my way into stakes way higher then I play I feel nervous and play the same way ,always comes out bad
I guess like anything else, the more you practice, the less nervous you feel. You just need to play more, that's all. Nothing replaces experience. I was recently watching a final table from Cyprus ( a high roller) and I was surprised how obviously nervous some of the professional poker players were and how many reads they had. You are not the only one who's nervous. You'll get better with time.
Nerves and excitement are very similar.....
The key is not to let the nerves of being there affect your play. Like for example, you can feel a pressure to play more hands as everyone is limping and calling etc etc. However, you should keep playing your game.
Similarly, don't be afraid to make a mistake, if you feel like you can bluff, you need to do it, and not worry about how other players percieve you.....there is no right way to play.....as long as you can justify the play properly, its your money and your time so play how you see fit!
The key is not to let the nerves of being there affect your play. Like for example, you can feel a pressure to play more hands as everyone is limping and calling etc etc. However, you should keep playing your game.
Similarly, don't be afraid to make a mistake, if you feel like you can bluff, you need to do it, and not worry about how other players percieve you.....there is no right way to play.....as long as you can justify the play properly, its your money and your time so play how you see fit!
Feeling nervous about new situations is normal.Nesehorn156 said:
Maybe consider buying a stack of chips and sitting at the live table and just folding almost every hand for 2 or 3 hours.
This would remove the performance pressure.
It will allow you to just watch the mechanics of the game.
It might cost you some euro but your goal on your first trip would be to leave the table with the same money you bought in with.
Good luck !
Totally normal. Live poker feels more intense because of the slower pace and being face to face with players.
I still get a little nervous sometimes, but I handle it by playing tight in the first orbit, focusing on observing the table, and taking a few deep breaths. After a few hands, the nerves usually disappear and the focus kicks in
I still get a little nervous sometimes, but I handle it by playing tight in the first orbit, focusing on observing the table, and taking a few deep breaths. After a few hands, the nerves usually disappear and the focus kicks in
The transition from online to live is tough mostly because you lose the software safety net. Online, the computer calculates the pot, stops illegal bets, and manages the action. Live, you have to do all of that yourself while feeling like 8 strangers are staring at your every move.
Like Rodrigo and Poker_Mike said, playing tight early helps. But to actually kill the physical nerves, just build these mechanical habits:
1. Vocalize your actions: Adrenaline makes your hands shake, whether you have the nuts or a huge bluff. Don't fight it. Just announce your action out loud first (e.g., "Raise, 45"). Verbal declarations are binding. Once you say it, you can take all the time you need to clumsily count your chips without worrying about string-betting. Let your voice do the work.
2. The 3-second rule: Online, you have a visual timebank. Live, rookies feel imaginary social pressure to act instantly. Force yourself to count to 3 in your head before every single decision. It stops the rushed anxiety loop dead in its tracks.
3. Nobody is analyzing you: You feel like the whole table is judging your mechanics. Reality check: 90% of low-stakes live players are just thinking about their own cards or checking their phones. If you act out of turn or mess up a bet size, the dealer simply corrects you and the game moves on. Literally nobody cares.
Just breathe, use your voice to declare bets, take your time. You'll settle in fast. Welcome to the live grind
Like Rodrigo and Poker_Mike said, playing tight early helps. But to actually kill the physical nerves, just build these mechanical habits:
1. Vocalize your actions: Adrenaline makes your hands shake, whether you have the nuts or a huge bluff. Don't fight it. Just announce your action out loud first (e.g., "Raise, 45"). Verbal declarations are binding. Once you say it, you can take all the time you need to clumsily count your chips without worrying about string-betting. Let your voice do the work.
2. The 3-second rule: Online, you have a visual timebank. Live, rookies feel imaginary social pressure to act instantly. Force yourself to count to 3 in your head before every single decision. It stops the rushed anxiety loop dead in its tracks.
3. Nobody is analyzing you: You feel like the whole table is judging your mechanics. Reality check: 90% of low-stakes live players are just thinking about their own cards or checking their phones. If you act out of turn or mess up a bet size, the dealer simply corrects you and the game moves on. Literally nobody cares.
Just breathe, use your voice to declare bets, take your time. You'll settle in fast. Welcome to the live grind
This is great advice! And know that nerves when doing anything new is totally normal. The best one for me in battling the nerves is keeping #3 above in mind. It's kind of like going to the gym and thinking everyone is looking at you and judging you. 😆 They're not. They're all too busy worrying about themselves. 🙂fa1920 said:
I think it's normal to feel different emotions when you start to play live poker mostly because of the social pressure... nervousness/anxiety, excitement, maybe fear of embarrassment... this will go away after you accumulate experience(it will depend on each individual, some will adapt faster, while others slower); the important thing is to always play within your bankroll(especially since you have the experience of playing online- IMO the online poker field is way tougher to beat than the live one...) and not let your the fear of potential losses influence your game/decisions, just don't rush(the 3-second rule mentioned above is a great advice 👍), take your time until you're comfortable/familiar with the environment, the stack/chips value, the other different things that are made automatically online but need your attention live... the positive thing is that people are very friendly and will help you with this transition(unless you're unlucky and encounter some 'maniac' on one of your first sessions), I've made quite a few friends from the live poker tables that now I do other IRL activities with...
As people have said, it's normal, whether in this situation or any other where you don't have much experience yet. You could invite a friend who also enjoys poker to go with you, or simply remember that, regardless of how it may seem, people are much more focused on their own hands and the details of the game than on everyone else.
