You have had negative situations in your family because of online poker.

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Hello! I play poker, I put a small limit. Even he registered his wife, and she plays with me. But my wife swears constantly over time, because I have put money there, and do not win anything. We have because of this scandal. We all know that gambling does not lead to good. How do you solve all these problems with his wife. Do you do it?
 
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It depends how much money you loose and if this affects your relationship or not (for example you play with money intended for living or you ignore her spending too much time to play). If this is the case she is right to be angry with you.

If on the contrary you play moderately as a hobby and with money which are intended for fun i do not see a problem. In every relationship both partners should have some budget and free time to have some fun individually as long as the main expenses are already met.It should not matter for her if you play poker, drink beer with friends or buy PC games for example.
 
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I think poker should be a bright addition to your life but it should not be life itself !!! Between family and poker, the choice is obvious - poker should not interfere with semey !!!
 
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First prioritize the family. Take everything they tell you positively, even if you don't agree with them. The family always wants the best for you.
 
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It depends how much money you loose and if this affects your relationship or not (for example you play with money intended for living or you ignore her spending too much time to play). If this is the case she is right to be angry with you.

If on the contrary you play moderately as a hobby and with money which are intended for fun i do not see a problem. In every relationship both partners should have some budget and free time to have some fun individually as long as the main expenses are already met.It should not matter for her if you play poker, drink beer with friends or buy PC games for example.
Yes, I can play the whole day and do not pay attention to it. It is because of this, you're right.
 
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Hello! I play poker, I put a small limit. Even he registered his wife, and she plays with me. But my wife swears constantly over time, because I have put money there, and do not win anything. We have because of this scandal. We all know that gambling does not lead to good. How do you solve all these problems with his wife. Do you do it?
The society demand we fit in a behavior pattern. So, to people regarded important for us, we have to prove that we are not an unbalanced person doing all our social, affective and financial duties as they have to be done. So I judge important, when it happens, sincerely asking to ourselves for the truth about "I really am adicted?", "Why people are telling that?", "What I can do to be better about it?".
 
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Thanks. I never thought that the forum can be helpful. I'll preznatelen, you have opened my eyes to things. Thanks.
 
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I do not spend money on the game. That makes no sense. If you can't build a bankroll by playing freerolls, you better listen to your wife and find another hobby.
 
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Unfortunately, not everyone accepts poker and thinks it is a type of addiction or gambling. Hardly a person who does not play poker accepts this, my family also cannot agree to see me playing, but they also do not criticize me for playing. If it is really a case of addiction where the person loses everything then I think it is cool for the family to intervene, but if the person only plays for fun and loses only a few dollars, I don't see anything too much about it.
 
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Hello friend, look personally I don't have a wife, but that situation makes me known. Over time I began to ask where I am playing poker, and if it is profitable to lead a life with the game. I play poker for love, because I like it and it is my passion. But my life goes the other way, I have my job and I don't live poker. But I understand you, many times the poker that gives you what you deserve, but what you need. regards 🙂
 
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I have no such problems. I try not to use my money for the game. To do this, I play freerolls. Then I use this money for the game.
 
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of course there were negative situations ... there are two ways out: start making money on it or stop playing
 
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Thanks for answers. If I asked here in Russia, me laugh. And here I feel real support, THANK YOU !!!
 
A few years ago my parents had problems that I gamble. I always told them that these are freerolls: D
 
No, everything is fine with us. Rarely when my mother told me enough to play it all lose, we will live on the street. To which I smiled and played on. And then mom also smiled. 🙂
 
There were times when I played a lot and ended up interfering in my personal relationships, especially at the beginning when I wanted to learn and conquer everything at once. Now with more experience, I can reconcile time for work, study, family, friends and poker.
 
I almost play freerolls, so it’s just a waste of time. Although, they say time is money.
 
Always more than everything with my mother, we have already had about 10 years, in discussions and with my aunts as well, but I already spoke with all of them and they finally accepted me, now I need to obtain good results, in this, God willing and they arrive to everyone's benefit.

a being without study, is an incomplete being.
Simon Bolivar.
 
Family should come first. If poker is hurting the relationship, One has to find a cheaper way to dump his earned money
 
absolutely not. in fact they don't care, maybe they would be worried if i lose money but that's not my case.
 
At home my wife for not knowing the game, she has never played and because she does not understand always annoying
 
my family has a negative attitude towards this type of earning a living
 
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