Is it possible to make true friends at a poker table?

  • Thread starter Thread starter gustav197poker
  • Start date Start date
Absolutely it is. I have made several friends over the years. I love them dearly. I was just remembering a poker site called Fat Cat Casino. I made so many friends there.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker





of course friend, the porker is a sport and you have to learn to win and lose at the same time, and if you can make very good friends even from cards hehehe social nights









ZPfBTNanAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC




[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.54)]
[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.54)][/COLOR]




[/COLOR]
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Hello. Poker has one common thing with football. Friends, even brothers, have been on opposing teams and have to play against each other. When the helmet goes on, it's a different world.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Aside from the fact that you're tryna takes each others money in a competitive and gambling spirit. Of course people have made friendship out of war...so the poker table isn't any different.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I agree. You see the same guy or gal all the time, there is a respect that builds, eat the fish and fight later.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I've never made true friends on the poker table but i know you can it's just that I play alot of tournaments and because of moving tables alot I hardly chat on tables.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Phoenix Wright said:
What are the game stakes? If the stakes are really small homegames or "play-chips" then friendship over the game feels likely because it is more so bonding over a social event than it is a grind for someone's rent money. However, even at the high stakes: many poker pros become good friends with each other (maybe part of it is an act for tv, but that doesn't explain regs in local casinos becoming friends with each other).

I think the money can get in the way of some friendships (and those you probably shouldn't be playing poker with), but for many people the friendships are separate from the cards, chips and money.

Everyone is different and some are naturally more sociable, but I believe friendship from the poker table is certainly possible and for many it is a reality that is a part of their life.


I gave that one a like since it was pretty close to what my first impression has been.
If you go play some cards for some change why wouldn´t you meet some nice people to stay in contact with? It might rather change on a professional level. I would guess you will meet a lot of nice people that you respect and like to get in touch with which you wouldn´t consider a friend though because of a lack of intensitiy. It isn´t impossible though. But the risk is definitly higher the person might drop you over money. That is a character nobody would show you over some coins.
But if you and that guy might put values over money? It will work just fine. You can be rivals at the table and fight hard. It might make both of you even better. And you can cheer for each other and also build a friendship that exists when Poker is no topic at all.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
The city in which I live is quite small, and when there were poker clubs or casinos in our city, the same people went there. In total, there were 30-50 people who knew about the existence of these gambling establishments, and therefore every time I came there to play, I met the same people. I cannot call these people friends, but thanks to live poker, I have many more acquaintances with whom I can meet at any time to talk about different topics or about life in general. I love playing live poker more against people I have played with before and know their style of play than against new opponents.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Friendship if you have clsoe relationship beyond tables, at tables is more manipulation and learn to read your "friend" opponent
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Hi all!

Yes, you can make friends in all situations. It depends on your goals regarding that topic. Are you open to the possibility of making new friends? From what you say, maybe you are running away or are afraid of new relationships. In my case, I would like to have the possibility to play live since I never did, and generate friendships 🙂
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Is possible to make true friends in every where!
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker and Freepokerfree
Of course until they crack my aces 😡😡😡 just kidding! Local games are a great way to make some new friends.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Sdub2020 said:
Of course until they crack my aces 😡😡😡 just kidding! Local games are a great way to make some new friends.


Local games ofc yes. But online I think that is impossible. Most people do not even use the chat at all. But cracked Aces destroy friendships.. Haha 🤞😉
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker and Sdub2020
Sure, most people you meet at the poker table have one thing in mind, but if you ask someone to get a drink after playing, you can be friends.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
yeah why not. if you play regularly you should learn how to lose and not be angry
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
You can make true friends anywhere if your open to the possibility ��
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I don't think you can make friends when you play online
because you have to focus on the game
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I think they’re all muted ��
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I think that we can find friends in any place, but we need to take care with who can try to take some advantage of us faking a friendship.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Online ,I doubt you can make real friends because you have to be cautious about who is behind that keyboard.
In live games ,on the contrary I made some really good friends because you can go restaurants and participate in lot of activities that help build a strong relantionship.
Online,I sure have some poker buddies but I wont call them friends
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Haha..yep. A great place to find your best buddy is at a very low stakes game. But it is very hard to make it work once someone strips a few hundred from someone in a dirty bad beat with questionable play. So I would have to say NO to this question.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
I live in Toronto Canada, and before Covid, played fairly regularly (about 5 times a year) at a casino in Niagara Falls New York. I have gotten to know some of the other retired regulars (us old geezers stick together) and I am very friendly with them at the tables, but I have not met with any of them outside the poker room. They are nice people, regardless of who wins or loses, but it is too hard to establish what I call a real friendship in a different country when I might see them a few times a year (if they happen to be at the poker room on the same day that I am there on holiday). My definition of friendship is very high...my true friends have known me since school days, some 45 - 50 years ago.
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
gustav197poker said:
I ask because many times it is said that a player befriended another at a table, so many times frequent the same place.
In my case, I find it hard to achieve a solid friendship at a table, that is why I like to vary the casinos where I am going to play. So they have no chance to meet me and I feel calmer when I am in new environments.
Although the ideal is to meet the player who confronted me, to be able to gather more information about his game and use it in my favor.
What do you think of this aspect of poker? Are you really interested in forming friendships at a poker table?
Greetings and thanks for your answer.
I do not think that poker is a way to get true friends, a friendship is achieved taking into account other things, apart from poker. There must be compatibility not only for the game, but in other aspects of life, such as: ideas, feelings, empathy ... and stop counting.:icon_sant
 
  • Like
Reactions: gustav197poker
Back
Top