Tygran said:
on a serious note... i've resolved to cut my complaining down in here... i'm one of i think several that does it a bit too much. Not saying i'll never complain (sometimes venting somewhere is theraputic!) but going to make a concentrated effort to keep it positive.
hold me to it guys!
I applaud you.
I have also made a commitment to this ideal in the last few months (not so much here in this thread since I only lurk here and poke up now and then to make an irritating comment).
The thing is, when I am losing and want to moan about it the usual purpose is to illicit sympathy or have someone tell me that I played it right and didn't deserve to lose.
It only take a few moment of thought to realize that not only are these unneeded but you guys don't actually give a flying frag if I lost with pocket whatevers to gimp-rock offsuit.
But more important than that is the realization that moaning about it isn't just useless it is NEGATIVE for my game and mindset.
When we lose a hand or session(s) it is some ratio of coolers:bad-play.
It behooves us to consider how much is under our control and how much is just the game... pick up, dust off and learn from our mistakes.
Now I know that sometimes we just gotta vent, and sometimes the game gets under the skin. And it might be annoying to hear a guy like me preach about it when my 8 buy-in losing streak is $80 when yours is $400 or $1600 or whatever... but it's all relative.
For me, in the end, I have found I seem to come unstuck a little faster when I remember not to complain.
I think of the best players who seem, also to follow this rule.
After all, as your Tagline thingy says it all:
E(X^2)-E(X)^2 Happens
cAPS